Divorcing and Scared

Hi Rose,

I do have an attorney. He is a good one apparently, but he doesn't give me much to go on. Anyway, I do have two arrests documented for crimes my ex has commited. One, is the sexual assault and the second is obtaining money under false pretences. He stole basically. I thought with these two acts of dishonesty that this would be enough for me to win custody. My lawyer is pretty confident. But you don't see this happening? I don't want to take time from his father, I believe his father makes bad choices for himself and his other child, I don't want him making these for my son too. I cannot imagine the judge giving this person joint custody. And the note thing. The police's first thought was Sam because it was so close to one of court dates I cancelled for Sept 5th. The not thing happened on Aug 27th. I remember that he wanted to scare the girl he raped before the court date and ask me to find a hit man. I was so scared for this woman that I told my husband I found someone to appease him and it would cost 3k. He gave me the money. I spent it of course on me and the kids. But that satisfied him. Are you sure you don't see sole custody for me?

Jennifer