Divorcing and Scared

Hi Rose, I just received a proposal in the mail from my husbands lawyer. I tell you, he now wants all the jewelry he has given me for gifts. I never received guilt gifts for his affairs, but just gifts for the holidays. He also wants my son for long extended periods of time.

I spoke to the police the other day regarding that note that was placed onmy car. The police had some video survaliance of the grocery store I shopped at when it happened. They had some ideas of who it could be, ( I am not really worried about it) they think it could possibly be my ex trying to scare me. They think that the note was place exactly when I was in the store shopping so I couldn't see this person. If you happen to have any insire on this, would you let me know. I am concerned because my ex had asked my to find some men to scare the woman he raped before the trial. He actually gave me cash to do it, when I told him I found someone (which I never did) it satisfied him. That is scarey.

We have our Child Custody hearing October 10th. I am seeking Sole Custody. But my reasons for doing this is because my ex cannot make propper decisions for him self, or his other daughter how can he be a good custodian or role model for his son? I do not want any visitation taken away from him, but I really need to be the one to make decisions for my son. I don't know if I told you, but last year my son got Croup again, this time he had RSV and couldn't breath. It was very scarey. My husband refused to go saying he had to sleep. ANd that he did until we came back home. My son had to be taken back to the ER a few days later where my ex did go, but with an agrument, and slept the entire time while I gave my son his breathing treatments. Its sutuations like this I do not trust. This court custody hearing, do you see me winning Sole Custody?

Thanks Rose..... for listening. Have a great day.
Jennifer