Monday, August 14, 2006

Divorcing and Scared - Sons Surgery

Hi Rose, My son is having surgery mainly on his penis. His circimsicion (sp) has adheased itself to the head of his penis. Also, the hole where he urinates from is too small which can cause some serious problem with bladder infections and such later. This may prevent him from potty training because of the uncontrollable force when urinating. I thought, while he was out with this surgery, why not have the moles removed so there is not two surgeries. The moles are hairy nevi's and they can potentially be cancerous later. The mole surgery is elective, I thought i should kill two birds with one surgery. I hope I am making the right descision. The adheasions are needed according to the doctors.

Do you think I am making the right choice? With my horrible experience in the hospital I have reservations. We went for a tour today so he can see what its all about. He's three, he doesn't know... I know... but I wanted to prepare him.

Jennifer

1 comment:

Rose said...

Aloha Jennifer

OK! that makes total sense, the child will do very well with his surgery, heal quickly (make sure he's taking vitamins while recovering). Replace your fears with prayers, faith and love. The tour was a brilliant idea, for both of you. Children are very senstive to the energy output of their mother. Be fully confident and he will be fully confident.
You are obviously a very loving and caring mother.
peace
Rose