Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Hard to do..... LOL

Hi Rose,

Hard to pray for that person when there is so much animosity...LOL. I will try though!

Thanks for your last post. I assumed there was someone in his life....the one thing I can truly hope for is that he doesn't hurt her the way he hurt me. If he can remain monogamous, I will be shocked. I do not believe it is in his DNA. What do you think? Our son often mentions a woman they spend time with that has horses. Do you see that too or is the little guy telling me stories? Is she good to my little boy? When we were married, his ex wife thanked me for being in his life because it took the focus off of her by a big percentage. It didn't stop, but it subsided.

I guess there is someone for everyone, huh?

Love you,

Jennifer

1 comment:

Rose said...

Aloha Jennifer
Praying when there is animosity is a fake it til ya make thing. Your animosity is hurting you not him.
His relationships with others, and how he treats them,is truly not your business. Wouldn't it be great if prospecyive husbands/boyfriends/girlfriends came with references from ex's? His ex wife shoulda spoken up before you married him, woulda saved you aggravation LOL.
Once a person cheats on a spouse, statistically, easier for them to repeat the behavior.

Yes, there's someone for everyone, even you, but not yet Jenn you have more healing to do.

peace,
~R