Hi Rose, my friend has been pulling her hair out about this. So I let her in on my little secret on how to calm down...ask you :) I promise not to do this on a regular basis, but I thought you'd be able to offer some advice. I asked her to write it out for me, here it is:

AMC (Birthday 16/03/'79)
SJB (Birthday either 25/01/'69 or 27/01/'69, his mother can't remember his date of birth, his (American) birth certificate says 25th and his (Irish) passport says 27th)

AMC dated SJB for three months, after which time they stopped dating because SJB wanted an open relationship, which AMC wasn't willing to enter into. SJB wanted AMC to be his friend. AMC met him twice for coffee, which went well and she felt he was a good friend and somebody that she should keep in her life. However she's not sure she can handle just being friends with SJB because she's very attracted to him. She's also been having lots of stressful dreams about him. But most times when she meets him he makes her laugh and she gets a lot of energy from him. She wonders:

A) if SJB is attracted to AMC at all anymore/ever was?
B) if AMC should cut SJB from her life?
C) what SJB wants from AMC in the long run?

Thanks!
Love Mel
P.S.-No drama in my life...all good at the moment :)