Rose,
Frst i would like to thank you for your invitation.
I have been with my ex for 7 years. His initials are J-P,B,T and his birthday is 5/6/77. I don't want to wonder anymore about this situation, because i am half moved on and half hoping.
I also have met two people and wonder if you can tell me anything about them
1. Initials: DA Birthday: 3/16/78
2. Initials: AD Birthday: 9/16/83
I believe that waht God has in store for us no one can change but i am looking for some guidance. I am very lost and confused.
Thank you!
8 comments:
my Initials: NM Birthday: 6/14/82
Aloha SummerBreeze
You are blessed to be going through this transformation with your ex. He is your ex for a reason. In one way he can be really sweet and nuturing but on the other hand he can be abusive. You were so very young when you hooked up with him. Move on with as much dignity and grace as possible. Ask yourself "What's the loving thing to do."
You have to take care of yourself and get stronger before you can enter into another relationaship as a whole woman.
Do you need personal direction? May I suggest helping other people, which feels like it comes naturally to you. School is also a good direction to go in. I feel as if people are always telling you their problems. You would make an excellent professional counselor.
peace and welcome to my blog.
love
~R
Rose,
Everyone has told me that what happened is good. Better now than if it was further along.
Is it going to be a while before i can find that special person and the two people I provided should i persue either one or am i setting myself up again?
Thank you!
SummerBreeze, darling
No do not persue either of these men. You have a lot to learn about YOU. Persue youraelf, make a list of all you dream for, not including a man.
Want to be a painter? dancer? designer? Make pottery? own your own business?
These are what you have to focus on. Know your self.
The men will always be there, let them earn the right to be with you. It's called Courtship.
Date for a year, then you will see all sides of a man.
Learn to date, learn to be friends with a man.
I hope you understand where I'm coming from.
You will marry...99% guarantee. No need to focus on it.
Have fun! Live and cherish life as if each moment were your last.
love
Rose
Rose,
Very intersting Rose. I am already learning a lot about myself. When it first happened i didn't think i could get through it but i am stronger than i gave myself credit for.
JPBT (5/6/77) wants to remain friends as i do but with me there are a lot of feelings involved and i do not want to get hurt again. I am not sure if he still loves me and that's why he wants me around or he really does care about me as a friend. ALso, he has a new GF who i am sure will make him choose sides, so i don't want to put myself in a position where i am bound to get hurt again. I still feel as though we will end up together. It's been 4 months since we broke up so i guess i need more time.
Should i remain friends with him? He is a great person.
Thank you!
SummerBreeze
Yes, a friendship is okay. Can you do so without expectations?
Protect your feelings for now and focus on yourself, your growth and personal goals and evolution.
love,
Rose
Rose,
Have a wonderful day and thank you for your guidance.
Until next time........
Regards,
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