Monday, August 13, 2007

What can you tell me?

What can you tell me about Kelvin's girlfriend Erica R. 9/2/1983. Is she a good person, does she have good intentions, or is she just using my brother?
I don't know about this relationship, as time goes by things just keep moving way too fast and I feel like MY head is spining. They have only been dating a month, but yet she already thinks she is pregnant because a condom broke :shock: . But, she refuses to take a home pregnancy test and says she will go to the dr to find out next week. That really does not make much sense to me. I'd rather take one at home than at the dr's office. She also told him if she is pregnant she will get an abortion but last night her daughter was talking about "when she moves". So, I am starting to get the feeling that this girl is hoping she is pregnant so she can move in with Kelvin. I hope she doesn't think she can move in with me :mad: .
I don't even know if she is over her daughter's father and if the relationship is really even over. She claims that someone keeps calling her and I guess hanging up. My mother said something about that he told her that he still loves her or cares about her or something to that effect.

1 comment:

Rose said...

Aloha Lisa

He loves her. Talk to him privately,in a loving way. Ask him about her, that you want to get to know her better. Ask him how does he know she loves him, be non-threatening, be a loving sister.
Keep your opinions of her to yourself. You don't want to alienate your brother. Pray for them to be happy.
Mind your business, be unconditionally supportive of him. He has his own karma, his path, and obviously she's on his path.
love
~R