Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Divorcing and scared

Rose, Thanks for your good wishes. I have been away from this man for 6 months now. Its a good thing, I know. I guess I just do not understand, Why. Why is he this way and why doesn't this man care about the hurt he caused me? Why is he so obssesed with women and sex? I don't get it. I was there always, faithful and did everything in the home. He dated throughout the marriage. I know of only a couple, but I wonder how many there really were. Why would a man suck you in to almost marry you and keep you for his purposes. I hace tried counceling... hoever, many do not take insurance and its a money issue right now. I am trying this new venture in professional resume writing. I seem to be good at this. I wanted to go to school to become a nurse. My path is helping people. Thats what I would like to do. I don't know if its in the furture for me. I seem to run into so many road blocks. With this divorce, My soon to be ex- would obviously like me to settle by paying for most of his debt. This is concidered marrital debt. However, I wasn't even allowed to use credit cards nor was I on loans. I wonder if I should wait for court and let the judge decide. I think he may favor me more than him. WHat do you think?

Jennifer

1 comment:

Rose said...

Jennifer

I need your last intital and date of birth. Also ex's initials and date of birth. As for the "why" of it? There is no logical explanation for his irrational behavior. Sex can be a drug too, he may be a sex addict.
love
Rose