Rose, I'm hurting very bad and hope you can help give me a message. I wrote you a while back about my mother .... you gave me some insight into my mom and grandmother Norma's relationship, which I feel was very accurate. Me and my grandma have been very close and she is now dying. I'm a nurse and never have I seen anyone hanging on like my grandma is. It has all been so sudden. I'm having a very difficult time seeing her this way. She's trying sooo hard to speak today, but she is so weak. She can't move and can barely open her eyes and is trying to mouth words but no one can understand her. She will probably pass very soon. I certainly hope she doesn't go on suffering this way. If you get any message for me please let me know. I told my grandmother when she does pass to please come through with a sign for me. I want to believe she will go on.
Melissa
PS- and more importantly than helping me feel better in any way, please send healing energy to my grandma and help her transition be smooth if you can do so in any way. I believe just a simple prayer will help. I'm going to go say one for her right now.
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Aloha Malissa,
Continue talking to and gently touching your grandma. Play her favorite music. Massage her hands and feet. Now is your opportunity to send her off with love, courage and prayers. In my belief system there is no such thing as death as our loved ones never leave us. Life long love continues and our loved ones become like spirit helpers. We can still talk to them, and if we listen carefully we can hear them. The scent of your gandmother will let you know when she is present.
It is extremely diffcult to see our beloved ones in this stage of their lives, once so vibrant and strong...we can't get our heads around their present condition.
Pray for her and with her in her modality. Kiss, touch and prayer...I pray that you and I have such a loving send off.
No pain too right? I will pray for her too. You are a wonderful granddaughter. She must be a very special woman.
Much love to both of you. Praying for all of you now darling Melissa.
Thank you, Rose. I just left there. Went there for a bit after work. My Uncle Randy was staying the night, so there wasn't a bed for me. It felt right with her and her first born son being there alone tonight and I felt like I was needed to go. I will go back first thing in the morning and will continue doing the things you mention.
It is very hard to wrap my mind around the way she is now. I've lost many people in my life, but this is so much different because my grandma is so much like. we have the same hands and many things.
Thanks for any prayers.
Love you!
Melissa
My darling Malissa,
Your beloved grandmother may leave her broken body but she will never leave you. Once we are freed from our body we are vibrant and young and healthy again, I know this, I saw it with my parents.
You are a wonderful granddaughter. You both are blessed to have been together in this lifetime. She loves you very much. Talk to her and touch her even if she doesn't respond she will know you are there.
Much love and comfort,
Rose
My darling Malissa,
Your beloved grandmother may leave her broken body but she will never leave you. Once we are freed from our body we are vibrant and young and healthy again, I know this, I saw it with my parents.
You are a wonderful granddaughter. You both are blessed to have been together in this lifetime. She loves you very much. Talk to her and touch her even if she doesn't respond she will know you are there.
Much love and comfort,
Rose
Rose, my grandma passed away the next am at 430am the morning I wrote you the last message. I wasn't able to go see her again, but I'm glad I stopped by that night after work. I saw how she looked peaceful. When I went to the nursing home that night my uncle Randy was in there asleep next to her holding her hand. They both looked so peaceful and seeing her holding her first born son's hand like that reminded me of me and my son. I felt I needed to leave them two alone, so I left. I had a feeling it might be the last time I saw her alive and it was. I'll miss her so much.
If you ever happen to get a message from her please let me know. I asked her to come through to someone. I guess time will heal...I'm ready to move away from here now as my grandma (and money situation) has been the main things keeping us here. I'm ready to me, Mike, Graham, and our soon to be baby Myles to start a new life somewhere else.
Thanks, love you,
Melissa
Dear Malissa,
My deepest condolences Malissa to you and your family.
She will be closer to you now, may come to you in a dream or vision, or even in a sudden breeze.
Best of luck you you and your family.
Aloha Grandma!
~R
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