Monday, June 27, 2011

Hi Rose,

It's been a looong time. I've been working on living in the moment instead of looking to the future as much as I used to. Momentary glitch...;)

GMR May 13 1982- I love him, he loves me. We're best friends. We respect each other. It's all there, except for the fact that he's not sure who he is or what he wants- not just in a relationship, but work and life too (he's a very confused person right now). I know the saying 'when you love someone, you have to let him go...' That's what I'm doing. This is something he needs to do on his own. He's a good man and I feel that he'll figure it out and come back strong, confident and ready to move forward.

However, you're better at this than I am....what do you see happening? Is he the one for me? and I just need to believe, have faith and be patient? or am I being crazy?

Love Mel
MJS Dec 20 1982

2 comments:

Rose said...

Mel!!! aoha dearheart! Long time is right!
Ask yourself why you keep falling in love with men that are in someway confused!
Be his friend, one can surely love a friend, and let go of other expectations. A man in love is not confused about the woman he wants to be with baby.
You're not being crazy, you're his friend. He's a bit controlling...let me have his way here.
No time spent in a good friendship is wasted. His first love is himself.Have faith in the Divine and turn him over to the care of a Greater Power.
Good to hear from you!
Peace,
Rose

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