Monday, October 18, 2010

Loving Mother

Aloha Rose,

Glad to hear all is well with you! I have tried FB but need a class on FB 101! Wanna hear something hilarious about FB, I thought for a good couple of months that my home page was my wall and now all I know is how to say Happy Birthday! Hey, baby steps! LOL

My son LC Jr 5-21-99 is breaking my heart into a million pieces. Will he graduate on next year? What do you see his professional career as?

IDK, he's such an introvert, in so much pain from his father's absence, and very angry. He's quick-tempered like his dad and claims he doesn't believe in God altho I believe that's to hurt me. Not understanding why he continues to hurt me so. He has been in trouble in school for the past couple of years and it's now cumbersome along with his poor grades. His father just simply doesn't give a darn and he loves his father so. I'm at wit's end and have turned the other cheek and not going to get so consumed with his attitude and behavior for I have two other children to focus on. Will he soon tell his father how he really feels? What's really going on with him and will he carry this into adulthood and be on a corner with a "Will work for food" sign? Not making fun or judging, just concerned where his life is headed. I have tried counseling and he's not interested.

I need guidance and prayer!

Namaste,
Mobet

3 comments:

Rose said...

Good morning Mobet,

You son is being oppositional just because he can be. With a date of birth like his he needs to work and play with other men, uniforms are good, sports, military etc.
School is the last thing on his mind. Can he get into a junior ROTC program? He needs a man's leadership and disciple.
He will succeed, he likes money too much to be standing on a corner looking for a handout.
Trust God Mobet, there is a Divine plan for your son.
So sign him up for something with male teamwork, guidance and discipline.
He will come to terms with his father's neglect and learn to treasure your love and support.
God's in charge lovey.

Namaste,
Rose

Mobet said...

It is too late for him to go to JROTC. Any other suggestions? Will he graduate in 2012?

I trust God but the pain is bad that it seems almost unbearable.

Jennifer said...

Mobet...Good luck to you. I know how heart breaking this can be. I am having similar issues with my 18 yr old son. Prayers are with you and keep us posted!

Jennifer