Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Silence not golden

Not sure what to make out of hubby. 1/29/58. Mine is 10/24/59. He doesn't talk and there really is no relationship at all. All I get is different stories out of him, none of which add up. How does one move on when you can't even have a discussion. I asked if you thought he wants to not be married and you responded "Yes." Totally distressed, and find it impossible to ever trust again.

Mary

2 comments:

Rose said...

Mary aloha,

We move on by not looking backwars and move forward. A flame needs oxygen to flare, deprived of the oxygen it dies out.

It's time to stop feeding this flame. Extinguish it. People change when they are tired of things being the same.

You will have peace if you let go, detach with love. Trust will be restored one day but it won't be easy to accomplish.

Focus on improving your life, focus on yourself.

Love,
Rose

mwray59 said...

I have spent the better part of the past ten years focusing on myself and.doing things for myself. I am on a road that has no other avenues. It's not him I can't let go of. I have no.desire to play men's games anymore and there is zero love in my life for a very long time.