Sunday, August 31, 2008

New Begginings

Hello Rose,

Just wanted to say hello. It may seam like I dropped off and never to be heard from again. I guess I just need to cleanse my mind for a while from my ex husband. I was very hyped that things would go my way in the divorce and I looked for vindication, but that didn't happen. It is what it is I guess and I have moved on happily.


I am still going through so many issues with him. SYZ 5/3/59. He is fighting me on everything. He is now suing me for sole custody based on he doesn't believe I communicate with him properly regarding our son. I do, but there isn't a lot to discuss with a 5 yr old. He just likes to intimidate me, that all it is. Our son is attending kindergarten in a couple days. Now his father is filing a contempt charge against me because he doesn't agree that our son should be in school. Its so ridiculous. I cannot win. I have recommendation letters from his pre-k teachers and the center director at his daycare all saying he is ready. Its crazy that I have to go to such extremes. Can you give me a hint as too why he doesn't want our son to attend school?

One more little tid bit...as you know my son's father lives 120 miles away from me. I am going to court to transfer the custody case to the county where we reside. In our decree it states in there that matters of custody and child support will be transferred to the appropriate jurisdiction. Where is that jurisdiction? The judge never said, so I HAVE to go back before that judge and try to get this transferred! With my other question above, do you think this will happen? Court is October 6th, 2008. Again my ex's dob is 5/3/59 SYZ mine are 1/3/68 JMD (maiden initials) JMH (married) .

Thanks and I hope all is well with you.

BTW: My mom is still cancer free, however, her husband is in stage 4 Hep C. These sicknesses never end.

Thanks,

Jennifer

2 comments:

Rose said...

Aloha Jenn

I knew you left because my prediction didn't manifest and you were disappointed. My own conclusion was that I did not have all the information, and based on what information I had...so ok, this happens. Welcome back!
If I'm not mistaken it is a law that children be registered for and enter school.
The letters from his teachers and the center director should be enough for the judge to rule in the child's favor.
You husband is very vindictive and will do anything to make your life miserable. The best thing is to have nothing to do with each other, the energy between you is really bad. Whatever you say he will fight for the opposite so just expect that.
I hope you are working with an attorney in your jurisdiction.
Go to legal aid if you don't have the money.
I will pray for the health of your mother and her husband.
Thinking positively brings better results.

Peace
Rose

Jennifer said...

I think I was so devistated I just removed myself frm everthing that was connected to my ex. I thought I had the world in my hands, but I was being too arrogant.

You are right about him fighting me. I say black he says white. He never compromises. I just don't get it.

I am thinking positive! I have a wonderful outlook on life now. My youngest is going to Kindergarten today. I will send pictures!

Jennifer