Thursday, December 06, 2007

Making Myself Sick

Aloha Rose,

I'm giving myself a big headache and need your help, Rose. I'm in a state of confusion about a relationship I think I'm in and trying to build. I believe in communication but not to the point of smothering or upseting because I don't like confrontations but more out of fear of angry results. I have inquired with you about this before but I am having a hard time because of non-communication. We used to talk all the time and now there is little to none and I don't know what I have done. I don't know what to make of it although I know he has a lot going on. I know we're a good match but will we, scw 11-22-67 and dlc 4-22-66, last or should I move on with my life and just love from afar as I always have? Do you have advice for me about my relationship? I know you said no expectations but this is really hard when I don't know what to do or where to turn? I know you're not a therapist but please provide guidance for me so that I won't be stuck.

Namaste and Mahalo,
Mobet

1 comment:

Rose said...

Aloha Mobet

I'm not a therapist, you're right, but I am in school to become a certified counselor. Combined with the heightened intuition I believe I can be of better service to everyone.
Now, da guy...
His problem(s) are coming from within him, you didn't do anything to cause this. Your primary relationship is with yourself and your God.
You may consider deciding which type of relationship with this man brings you the most peace of mind. And you know what that is, you said it, loving him from afar, this means to me a loving with detachment.
I hope this helps. Let me know.
Love
Rose