Why is he in my thoughts?

Hello Rose....I havent been on your sight in so long..very busy and tired from work. And I have lost 36 lbs. since March, so trying to stay focused on exercise...BUT, I do have something that is on my mind... Old Flame from 3 years ago... Seems he enters into my thoughts daily, usually when this happens, its because that person is thinking about me, Is he? I have always felt that we would re-kindle the romance...Not hoped, but felt... We both had and probably have many life lesson to learn..I feel a very strong pull to open up the communication with him again, Is this wise ? SMB 8-12-64 and His is REB 1-20-51 Sandy