Divorcing and Scared

Thank you for your insite. I am realy curious. I was working with a woman today regarding the custody issue. She helped work some things out that may work. My ex is suppose to have gone through Sex Offender therapy and he never did. I asked my attorney to fight for Sole Legal/ Joint Physical custoday. I need to make sure my son is protected and he has a parent that can make good choices for him. I told my lawyer also, that when my ex completes his probationary terms... like therapy and fullflls the rest of his probation we will consider joint custody, but I need him to seek help first. He really needs to know, all these women did not set him up, that he did this. Its sad, because as he really gets better... thats the man I want. Unselfish, honest. My father asked me not to seek a salesman anymore. I know I have to heal myself. But I am lonely. I did meet someone hich we have a lot in common. His parents came from Krakow, Poland so did my grandparents and his parents met in Austria. My parents met in Austria. His father died of emphazima, my father was just diagnosed. He seems nice, I checked him out. No criminal record not vene a speeding ticket. Hes been at the same job for 16 years working with reports and computers. He seems to like me his name is Chris last name Rajca born 11/21 not sure of the year but he will be 46 this year. I hope his intentions are true. Let me know if they aren't. LOL. I am lonely, and I would love to just hang out with someone and have fun. I need that. Take care.- Jennifer