Sunday, February 19, 2006

Decisions, decisions...help please

Hi Rose,

How was your Valentine's Day? Did Stephen spoil you? I had a lovely Valentines :)

I got my grades for last semester and did very well :) I have some decisions to make, and was wondering if you'd be able to give me your opinion...eventhough I'll probably do what I want...as I tend to do ;), I would value your opinion anyway.

1.There's an internship with a Consultancy firm in Dublin, and it would be a research psychologist position with Microsoft. I'd have to write my thesis based on a management training development program that the company is pilot testing. There's one position, and 19 students in my program = competition. More than the issue of if I'd get the spot..I'm trying to figure out if I'd enjoy it. If I got it, I'd also have to stay here during the summer, instead of going home for the four months. Hmmm...Do you think it would be a good fit for me?

2.As usual, there's a male dilemma. There are two men BJG (Jan 7.77) and JAF (Oct 14.75). I know you always tell me "lifes a buffet, why settle on just one item" when it comes to men. But I've noticed that dating more than one person at a time over here is very much frowned upon. And college/work has me so busy that I don't think I could handle more than one. Which one is a better match?

3.There's an option of going home for 10 days in March. Is it worth the money for such a short visit?

There are my questions, and there's no rush. Nothing super important

Love Mel
MJS Dec 20.82

2 comments:

Rose said...

Aloha Mel,
Steven always spoils me, I got a giant balloon, a 2 pound box of candy in a huge heart, and jewelry! He's the best boyfirned I've ever had.
Love first, I consulted my Ephemeris and it looks like JAF is a better match.
For question #1 please remember you have no competition. Enjoying the Microsoft position depends on what career goal you have for yourself. If it's to make tons of money (material fulfillment)yes, if it's to help as many people as possible (spiritual fulfillment) the answer is no.
Going home for 10 days is priceless and cannot be measured by the amount of money spent to accomplish this.
Oh, and I know you'll do what you want. You have good intuition so trust that. Congrats on your awesome grades.
love
Rose

Mel said...

Thanks for your advice Rose :)